Monday, September 27, 2010

About women.. true?

Ok so I read an article written by a guy about women. He's not a misogynist but yeah he's a sexist. Ok now before you girls get insulted, remember its just one guy's opinion. And yes of course there are 150,675 bad points about guys too. Its just that reading these and through my experience it seems like all these are spot on. Of course I don't condone the bad light in which he describes women but yeah. I felt like sharing this because... heck I have no idea. Maybe I want feedback, what do you think? And please dont start hating or flaming, I don't want a stupid argument.
These are a few things he said:

* Don't let her manipulate you or control you in any way. She will immediately lose all respect for you.

* DON'T TRY TO IMPRESS HER IN ANY WAY. Don't show off. Don't talk about accomplishments or possessions. As soon as she perceives that you are trying to prove yourself to her, she loses all interest.

* Make sure she gets the feeling that you have standards and that you are judging her based on them. Ask her questions that show her you are checking her out to see if she is up to snuff. Women don't like to feel like you are with them only because you can't do any better. They prefer to feel like you have high standards; you can get any chick you want, but you chose HER because she is SOOOO special and SOOOO different from all the others. Yeah, I know.

* She will start asking you lots of questions. This is what chicks do when they suddenly find themselves attracted to a man they know nothing about. This is usually the time when I throw in a few fake vulnerabilities, like pretending I'm shy or insecure about something. I know it's fucked up but women need to see that there are at least a few small holes where they can sink their hooks in you. They get uneasy if you are too perfect.

* Keep the woman always swinging somewhere between validation and rejection. If she feels rejected, she drops out or gets REALLY MAD. And if she feels too validated, she will ditch you in a heartbeat. So push her away (emotionally) and then pull her back in.

* Ironically, women are most attracted to the men who are most likely to get with them and then dump them on their ass - because those are precisely the men who have so many other options because they practice on lots of women. That's why you always hear women bitching about how men are assholes that only want to get them and dump them - because those are the men that they gravitate to.

*The sweetest most innocent girls you ever laid eyes on, will cheat at the drop of a HAT. The one thing that most men value most - loyalty - is just not there with women. Women don't think in terms of honor, women don't say "word is bond;" women are basically emotionally driven. If they feel it, they do it, period. Then they rationalize it to themselves later. Nothing is more meaningful, or compelling, to a woman than (1) the way she feels and (2) learning more about her own inner self and having emotional realizations.

* Women tend to wise up when they get towards their 30s, and they start looking for a nice wimpy beta male to settle down with and pay for all their shit. As they get older, they will get more and more desperate to find this guy. Once they do, they will cheat on him with an exciting fun guy like me.

* One more thing...many guys make the mistake of listening to female romantic advice. Don't listen to them, THEY DON'T KNOW WTF THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT, and they WILL steer you wrong. They will tell you what they THINK they want, instead of what they actually RESPOND to.

Ok so the rest of it I cant give you, because his details are rated 21++ and everyone will go crazy because thats what people do. I'd credit him but its signed "unknown".

On my part Ive made basically ALL the mistakes mentioned. And yeah I failed miserably when I made them. And all those nasty bits about women are testified by the experiences of not less than 20 of my friends.

And hey again, pls dnt hate. I found this article shocking, and Im not supporting it. Im wishing its not true. Anyways, there it is.



  1. haha.u didnt copy down EVERYthing.i know y.hehe

  2. yeah Im genius right? About which parts to take and which parts not to. But it was an excellent article wasnt it?

  3. i cannt agree more with this article..brilliant thought however..
    -women eye

  4. wait. Anonymous,u are a chick and u agree?

  5. Here's a name you can give credit to - Robert Green! Most of the points are from his books like 48 Laws of Power.
    And hey, these are not negative points these are things that arise due to sociological behavior of humans and their interactions with others. They are true not just for women but for humans in general (well, most of them).
    These things are often seen in bad light 'cuz people are pseudo-compassionate. There's nothing wrong in knowing how to get what you want the most! This is like cursing the millionaires for having too much money and being in the same rat race all our lives!
    I would suggest you read (and in this strict order!) Ayn Rand and then Robert Green! The first author teaches one how to respect our intellect, passion, capabilities and a competitive spirit and the second author teaches the art that gets us to the goal.

  6. im jus telling the truth dude n be more realistic.
    we(chick) are like this not all but apparently .. not gonna be bias with this whole thing .. too egoistic i thought..wasnt it??

  7. whoa.some great info..thanx..
    yea..but this article is interesting..i'd like to read an article of how a guys mind works..i am one.but i'd like to see from a chicks POV.

  8. Anonymous: Its written by a sexist, of course its egoistic, thats what i said. I do respect your opinion however.

    PJ: Like my bro said, thanks for the info man. Really good comment there.

  9. interesting post yen.
    I can say that the advice would almost always work in getting a woman (may even work when women tries to get men). However, in case of maintaining the relationship, not so much.
    In a way, most of the points are of psychological manipulations and doing them will become tiring after a while.

    But, looking at the last point you proly shudn't be taking advice from me kaan :P
    (ok the last part is just pure sarcasm. Can't resist it haha)

  10. Oh lol, I don't take the post that seriously. U see, Ive an overflowing positivity about things. Ive been a hopeless romantic all my life, and it doesnt matter how many times I meet with rejection or failure in love and the following inferiority issues. And though I change alot in other aspects, a hopeless romantic I shall remain ^__^
    When I find love one day, it will be by my rules. Not by some crazy playboy sexist's advice.
    We all find our rainbow one day.